Man up: be upfront and tell her you're into her, that you understand she's got kids and a previous boyfriend/husband, and that you're fine with that, and if she, please, wouldn't let you take her somewhere nice for a day trip (doesn't have be anything fancy). Then you'll see, and you won't have to worry for another second.
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Brothers will fight
and kill each other,
sisters' children
will defile kinship.
It is harsh in the world,
whoredom rife
—an axe age, a sword age
—shields are riven—
a wind age, a wolf age—
before the world goes headlong.
No man will have
mercy on another.
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and uhh she got the hots for me the finest thing my hood did see.
IM not sure what the question is, just take a piece of paper, write the two choices down and stand a pencil up to fall on them and what ever it lands on gg.
4chan, just go out to a nightclub or something lol. Don't go for a girl with kids; if you want a hookup go out.
It is 4chan you're talking to. Probably the only nightclub he seen is from a movie or a tv-show.
First time I went to a nightclub it was for homosexuals and I danced with a guy.
Lat time I went to nightclub I stood in the corner, realize it sucks and went home to play warcraft
Go with friends next time or just meet random people lol. It takes time to get hyped up in a nightclub, it might not be fun for the first hour if you're not with friends/making any